![]() ![]() Hopefully when you do decide to have sex for the first time, you'll be happy with the decision. It sounds like both of you have given some thought to what your virginity means to you. Often peer pressure, strong emotions, uncertainty, curiosity, guilt, fear, personal and family beliefs, exploding hormones, and _ (you fill in the blank) are involved in this big life event. Much goes into the decision to have sex for the first time. ![]() Kudos to you for deciding to use a condom, whether you choose to call it sex or not. If you use a condom the first time you have sex, most people would consider this your "first time." However, what matters most is how you feel about it and how you want to define your experience. If you want to consider yourself a virgin, that is totally your decision.Īs for "The boy," most people would probably consider your experience as sex. ![]() You wanted to keep your virginity and wait until you are ready. The main point is that you decided you weren't ready to have sex yet. In the first scenario it doesn't matter what other people might say in terms of virginity. Different people come to their own conclusions about what defines virginity, so consider deciding your criteria. Others may say that being a virgin means never having had penile-vaginal sex, and that anal and oral sex don't count. Some people define being a virgin as never having had any kind of sex (vaginal, anal, or oral). What's most important is to understand what it means to you. There is no strict definition of virginity - being a virgin means different things to different people at different points in her/his life. It sounds like keeping your virginity may be important to both of you. ![]()
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